My Child...My Strength

Who likes to be alone. Every person needs the support, love of their loved ones. The loved ones can be parents, siblings, spouse, children, friends or anyone who is close to us.

I too always need the company of my loved ones. When I am with my family I feel that I am with the safest company and life looks so easy with them. It gives me a feeling of optimism and the strength to face any difficulty as I know my family is always there to support me.

To talk about one special moment with my loved ones, I can think of the day when my little son arrived in this world. The moment when I first saw him was the most special moment of my life. When he looked at me with his tiny eyes, I felt that life is so beautiful. He gave me strength to come out of the pain of the cesarean and gain my body strength again so that I can be with him.

Actually there were many complications during the delivery procedure due to which I had to undergo cesarean. My child was born healthy but initial 3-4 days were difficult for him due to some complications. My whole family was with us during that one week.  When I came out of consciousness the first thing I wanted to do was go to my son and hold him in my hands. But as I had undergone operation I was not able to move. So I asked doctor to take me on the wheelchair to my son as I could not wait to see him. He was in the Children ICU ward as he was having some problem.

The moment I saw him, I forgot about all the complications and pain that I had suffered. I was so amazed with the process that god has developed about the birth. It is one of the way god gift us with one of the most precious gift that one can have.

When I realized that my son has some problem and has to be kept under observation, I got a little worried. He was in front of me, but I could not hold him. My family on one hand was so happy with his birth but at the same time they were worried about his health. I too could not control my tears.

But then suddenly my kid looked at me from the glass window and gave a cute little smile, that moment I wiped off my tears. I realized that everything is going to be fine. That moment filled a feeling of optimism in me. Why was I thinking negative and feeling sad. I told my family members to not to worry. He will recover and be with us soon. His tiny little eyes told me that mom I am coming with you home soon. All my worries were gone and patiently waited for another 3 days when my child was fully fit and ready to be discharged.

From that day onward I rarely think negative about anything. I am always positive that god has given me such a lovely gift and he will always take care of him. My child has given me the strength of optimism which I am never going to let go.

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