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This is going to be really interesting. That’s exactly the
thought you are currently having on reading the title of this article. No surprises,
we all are always interested in other love stories and especially if it doesn’t
turn out to be successful. Successful? Even this word has different
interpretations for different people. What is further going to amaze you is
that I am going to discuss the impact from the real life story of my husband.
Yes, you read it right, wife sharing the husband’s story and the impact he had
in his life after losing his girlfriend (one definite good impact was that I
got married to him).
Generally, when a man loses his girlfriend and if he was actually
serious about her, then either they lose their mind, they harm the girl, or
their own life, thereby impacting the lives of everyone around them in a
negative manner, or some of them lead a very normal life, or quickly try to
look for someone else to become their support system (normal human tendency)
and then again get ditched. But there are very few like my husband who makes their
loss in life as the motivating factor to achieve high milestones in their life.
He was madly in love with a girl in his college. Even the
girl used to love him a lot (that’s what she use to claim). But after college,
my husband went for post-graduation and in the meantime the girl married
another guy just because he was earning a handsome salary and my husband was
still studying. The moment he came to know about it, he swore that he is never
going to talk to that girl and at the same time he will study so hard that is
starting package would be equal to the package of his girl friend’s spouse
which he will be earning after 5 years of experience. My husband actually made that
happen and bagged the highest package form the college placements. Since then
he has never looked back, has not grudges about his past life and in fact takes
everything in a positive spirit and believes that betrayal has proved to be a
boon for him and he is not only successful but also blessed to have a wife like
me along with a wonderful kid.
He once told me that there are some really successful people,
business man etc. who have been betrayed in love and are now big shots in
industry and have created big brands form themselves. He always says, your life
is in your own hands. Nobody can ruin it except for you. So people should stop
blaming others for their failures. It’s our ability/inability to deal with the particular
situation/person that determines your future. Situations, people around you can
impact you, but what you become completely depends upon how you take the
impact.
For example, if I give you Rs. 100 note, it all depends on
you, whether you buy something out of it, give it to someone needy or invest it
to get more gains. Each action will have its own impact. I have just given you
the note; your action/reaction will determine the impact and not me who gave
you the note. Think about it.
Now, if I tell you that this article is written by me, me as
in the husband and not the wife. What will you think about this article? It is
fake? Whether the article is fake or not, is not important, whether it is
written by husband or wife is not important, but what actions you are going to
take in your personal life, how you will channelize your personal life is going
to make the real impact
Think about it…!!!
