Who likes to be alone. Every person needs the support, love
of their loved ones. The loved ones can be parents, siblings, spouse, children,
friends or anyone who is close to us.
I too always need the company of my loved ones. When I am
with my family I feel that I am with the safest company and life looks so easy
with them. It gives me a feeling of optimism and the strength to face any
difficulty as I know my family is always there to support me.
To talk about one special moment with my loved ones, I can
think of the day when my little son arrived in this world. The moment when I first
saw him was the most special moment of my life. When he looked at me with his
tiny eyes, I felt that life is so beautiful. He gave me strength to come out of
the pain of the cesarean and gain my body strength again so that I can be with
him.
Actually there were many complications during the delivery
procedure due to which I had to undergo cesarean. My child was born healthy
but initial 3-4 days were difficult for him due to some complications. My whole
family was with us during that one week. When I came out of consciousness the first
thing I wanted to do was go to my son and hold him in my hands. But as I had
undergone operation I was not able to move. So I asked doctor to take me on the
wheelchair to my son as I could not wait to see him. He was in the Children ICU
ward as he was having some problem.
The moment I saw him, I forgot about all the complications
and pain that I had suffered. I was so amazed with the process that god has
developed about the birth. It is one of the way god gift us with one of the
most precious gift that one can have.
When I realized that my son has some problem and has to be
kept under observation, I got a little worried. He was in front of me, but I could
not hold him. My family on one hand was so happy with his birth but at the same
time they were worried about his health. I too could not control my tears.
But then suddenly my kid looked at me from the glass window
and gave a cute little smile, that moment I wiped off my tears. I realized that
everything is going to be fine. That moment filled a feeling of optimism in me.
Why was I thinking negative and feeling sad. I told my family members to not to
worry. He will recover and be with us soon. His tiny little eyes told me that
mom I am coming with you home soon. All my worries were gone and patiently
waited for another 3 days when my child was fully fit and ready to be
discharged.
From that day onward I rarely think negative about anything.
I am always positive that god has given me such a lovely gift and he will always
take care of him. My child has given me the strength of optimism which I am
never going to let go.
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